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	<description>From the cradle to the grave.</description>
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		<title>Comment on The journey of my adopted self. by Theresa</title>
		<link>http://ibastard.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-journey-of-my-adopted-self/#comment-1308</link>
		<dc:creator>Theresa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 11:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dude.... seriously. Check in, OK? 

Even if it&#039;s just to send an email saying, &quot;Quit stalking my blog and go away&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dude&#8230;. seriously. Check in, OK? </p>
<p>Even if it&#8217;s just to send an email saying, &#8220;Quit stalking my blog and go away&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Comment on The journey of my adopted self. by Lillie</title>
		<link>http://ibastard.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-journey-of-my-adopted-self/#comment-1301</link>
		<dc:creator>Lillie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 15:37:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>iB?  Where are you?  You are missed...please come back to blogland, hope you are okay.  Let us know how you are.

We miss you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>iB?  Where are you?  You are missed&#8230;please come back to blogland, hope you are okay.  Let us know how you are.</p>
<p>We miss you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Introducing the Adoption Apparel Translator by Ansley</title>
		<link>http://ibastard.wordpress.com/2007/07/14/introducing-the-adoption-apparel-translator/#comment-1299</link>
		<dc:creator>Ansley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 08:10:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually, I did not say all things &#039;priceless&#039; are also &#039;child&#039;, so my answer is no.

I totally get you. I hate the shirts to.  

And I guess if you want to say all kids cost &#039;x&#039; amount of dollars and are referring to hospital fees for bio kids; well then kids cost money and are &#039;bought&#039; virtually everywhere (not just in the evil US). 

Just playing devils advocate.  I&#039;m with you.

Speaking of, where you been?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, I did not say all things &#8216;priceless&#8217; are also &#8216;child&#8217;, so my answer is no.</p>
<p>I totally get you. I hate the shirts to.  </p>
<p>And I guess if you want to say all kids cost &#8216;x&#8217; amount of dollars and are referring to hospital fees for bio kids; well then kids cost money and are &#8216;bought&#8217; virtually everywhere (not just in the evil US). </p>
<p>Just playing devils advocate.  I&#8217;m with you.</p>
<p>Speaking of, where you been?</p>
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		<title>Comment on The journey of my adopted self. by joy21</title>
		<link>http://ibastard.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-journey-of-my-adopted-self/#comment-1136</link>
		<dc:creator>joy21</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Dec 2007 21:54:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Weird, I had the second dream I have had since you quit blogging that you came back, only you had changed your heading to green.


Miss you.  Miss your roller LOLZ.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Weird, I had the second dream I have had since you quit blogging that you came back, only you had changed your heading to green.</p>
<p>Miss you.  Miss your roller LOLZ.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The journey of my adopted self. by 2B True</title>
		<link>http://ibastard.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-journey-of-my-adopted-self/#comment-1131</link>
		<dc:creator>2B True</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Dec 2007 05:47:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You still out there??  Looking forward to hearing from you again...

Sharon</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You still out there??  Looking forward to hearing from you again&#8230;</p>
<p>Sharon</p>
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		<title>Comment on About by Julie</title>
		<link>http://ibastard.wordpress.com/about/#comment-826</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2007 18:24:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thinking of you...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thinking of you&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on The journey of my adopted self. by Andie D.</title>
		<link>http://ibastard.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-journey-of-my-adopted-self/#comment-786</link>
		<dc:creator>Andie D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2007 04:16:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK really now.

COME ON.

Where are you?  Don&#039;t start scaring us.  Don&#039;t let any of us scare you.  Please?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK really now.</p>
<p>COME ON.</p>
<p>Where are you?  Don&#8217;t start scaring us.  Don&#8217;t let any of us scare you.  Please?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Painful truths. by Nina</title>
		<link>http://ibastard.wordpress.com/2007/08/18/painful-truths/#comment-783</link>
		<dc:creator>Nina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 03:29:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;This is a painful truth because it positions me as a bewildered object acted upon by unseen and unaccountable forces.&quot;

Consider yourself positioned!  You WERE.  

I respect and acknowledge your state of bewilderment.  It IS bewildering.    

I just loved that you wrote that.  Very beautiful.  And sad.  And true.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;This is a painful truth because it positions me as a bewildered object acted upon by unseen and unaccountable forces.&#8221;</p>
<p>Consider yourself positioned!  You WERE.  </p>
<p>I respect and acknowledge your state of bewilderment.  It IS bewildering.    </p>
<p>I just loved that you wrote that.  Very beautiful.  And sad.  And true.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The journey of my adopted self. by Nina</title>
		<link>http://ibastard.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-journey-of-my-adopted-self/#comment-782</link>
		<dc:creator>Nina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Sep 2007 03:24:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mmmm.  

That&#039;s really interesting.  I LOVED that book and everything Lifton has written.  That book is on my desk along with the works of Alice Miller.  

But I&#039;m wondering....

I&#039;m much older (46) and grew up reading books written in a more formal style.  And I&#039;m hearing what you say about her making sweeping, authoritative generalizations.  Not discounting them, although I have a different take.  

If you don&#039;t like it, you just don&#039;t like it.  

We either connect to a book.  Or don&#039;t.  

I ADORE &quot;The Devil of Nanking&quot; by Mo Hayder and everything by Swedish mystery novelist Henning Mankell (shameless plugs), and my husband HATED them.  And I adore my husband and think he has very good taste.  

Even if you don&#039;t like Lifton&#039;s book, at least you&#039;ve tried it and have some context for future discussions about the literature.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mmmm.  </p>
<p>That&#8217;s really interesting.  I LOVED that book and everything Lifton has written.  That book is on my desk along with the works of Alice Miller.  </p>
<p>But I&#8217;m wondering&#8230;.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m much older (46) and grew up reading books written in a more formal style.  And I&#8217;m hearing what you say about her making sweeping, authoritative generalizations.  Not discounting them, although I have a different take.  </p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t like it, you just don&#8217;t like it.  </p>
<p>We either connect to a book.  Or don&#8217;t.  </p>
<p>I ADORE &#8220;The Devil of Nanking&#8221; by Mo Hayder and everything by Swedish mystery novelist Henning Mankell (shameless plugs), and my husband HATED them.  And I adore my husband and think he has very good taste.  </p>
<p>Even if you don&#8217;t like Lifton&#8217;s book, at least you&#8217;ve tried it and have some context for future discussions about the literature.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The journey of my adopted self. by Possum</title>
		<link>http://ibastard.wordpress.com/2007/08/22/the-journey-of-my-adopted-self/#comment-781</link>
		<dc:creator>Possum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2007 02:41:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just dropping in to say hi also.
Hope you&#039;re ok.
Thinking of you.
Possum. xx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just dropping in to say hi also.<br />
Hope you&#8217;re ok.<br />
Thinking of you.<br />
Possum. xx</p>
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